I'll never forget the first time I attended an NA meeting
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A random weeknight in the dead of winter. I found myself sitting along the back wall of a church basement on a hard beige folding chair, wishing I drank coffee
The meeting soon came to order, and for the next hour, I quietly listened, as people from every walk of life told stories. They told stories of heartache as well as celebration, of the urge to use, and their often difficult relationships with friends and family
(the list goes on .. )
What struck me more than anything was their honesty. There wasn't a hint of judgment or pretense, a sheer determination to live in the moment.
“This is who I am and where I am right now. I may not be perfect, but I'm going to do my level-best today to be just a little bit better.”
During every meeting, time is carved out to celebrate sobriety. Colored coins or keychains are given to mark the milestones.
That night I watched him walk to the front of the room, the coin slipped into his pocket, a white keychain quietly handed to me as he sat back down beside me
“White, Mom is the international color of surrender. It's given to anyone who comes to their first meeting, is back after relapse, or simply wants to give up their old ways for new.
Thanks for coming to support me.”
The shiny gold letters read
“Just For Today”
Photo Credit: aacleve.org
I pulled it out and hung it in my office today
I have a feeling I'm going to need it this week as I embark on a new challenge. This time not as a coach, but as a participant in Mark MacDonald's 8-Week Run. Though I lead a healthy lifestyle already, there's always room for improvement
A year or so ago, I was in the best shape of my life and on my game. I thought it's ok to have this treat every now and again, or maybe I won't need to be as diligent. Although my weight hasn't changed dramatically, my body comp sure has.
Time to be back after it. It's fun to be part of a group from whom success stories for his upcoming book will be drawn from
(Much more to come)
In the meantime, it's day two of detox.
Among the long list of no-nos? Caffeine and sugar. At the top of the yes list, of course, is water
I've always thought it boring, drinking it more because I know I should, rather than something to be enjoyed. That is until I walked into my coach's house one evening last week. On her counter sat the most beautiful glass container, filled with water, ice, fruit, and herbs
One drink and I was hooked
She passed along her recipes, and now these beautiful containers grace our kitchen as well. A different flavor every day and is the goal to drink through the container by the end of the day – 100 oz (just shy of a gallon)
It seems like a lot
“Just for today, Mom. Only focus on this one day. It's all we really have anyway.”
My keychain is with me. I know how much better I'll feel. I want to be the best I can be. The awful feelings of withdrawal won't last forever. Ibuprofen is a friend
Enjoy!
xoxo
ps: Life lesson #6789 – A husband whose wife gives up sugar and caffeine (at the same time!) is worthy of incredible respect.
pps: The following two recipes have been our favorites to date.
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~ Adapted from Why Should I Drink More Water
Lemon and Thyme Flavored Water
Ingredients
- 1 lemon, cut in half (or thick slices)
- 5 - 6 sprigs thyme (scrunched or muddled a little bit to release their flavor)
- gallon of water
- ice
Instructions
- To the container, add the lemon, thyme, and ¼ gallon water
- Cover with a thick layer of ice and put in the refrigerator overnight to steep
- In the morning, fill the rest of the way with water and ice
- Enjoy!
Strawberry and Basil Flavored Water
Ingredients
- 3 cups strawberries
- 4 - 5 leaves basil (scrunched or muddled to release their flavor)
- gallon of water
- ice
Instructions
- To the container, add the strawberries, basil, and ¼ gallon of water. Cover with a thick layer of ice and put in the refrigerator overnight to steep
- In the morning, fill the rest of the way with water and ice
- Enjoy!
22 Comments
Wow.
Thank you for the story and congrats on absolutely stunning photographs!
Beautiful, meaninful blog. Brought tears to my eyes and then a smile to my face. Thank you.
Beautiful, inspiring post! I’m saving these flavored water recipes to make soon…they look so refreshing! I never drink enough water; this will definitely help!
so honestly written; beautiful post! (and stunning photos! I’m going to try the lemon and thyme water tomorrow!)
I’m always trying to drink more water and those recipes look perfect! And thank you for the beautiful story as well.
I love flavored water! Can’t wait to try this!
I need to try the strawberry and basil water I love both ingredients!!! Thank you for sharing I never drink enough so this will help!
Sophie x
Good luck with the detox. I love flavored water and this strawberry and basil version looks amazing nom nom! XX
I hope your detox is a success. And what a beautifully written post.
I have a major thing for flavored water and this recipe looks great! Lemon is my fav!! Thank you for sharing!!
Wonderful idea – I need to be drinking more
Looks so refreshing – & it would probably help me drink more water which lord knows I need help with!
I love putting cucumber and lemon in my water! It’s so refreshing and helps me keep up on drinking water. I need to trying adding thyme!
How inspiring. I think it’s amazing that you have such motivation, I wish you good luck on that run! You’re going to be amazing for sure. The lemon water is always nice, I’ve never added thyme on mine, so this recipe is a keeper! Love that strawberry and basil combination.
Drinking more water is on my list of things I must do this year. I think the strawberry and basil would be an interesting combination to try. Thanks for sharing your story.
who would think this was so good? now i know more effective ways to have water.. very resourceful. thanks.
Strawberry and Basil sounds like a terrific combo – two of my favorite foods! As an added benefit, I think the combo could also aid in boosting metabolism.
Wow I found myself so inspired reading your motivation. I’d love to do the flavored water in that lovely pitcher its such a genius idea and definitely more doable than just water in a regular bottle
Your story is so inspiring, heart-warming and motivating. Hope you’ll be successful with your 8 week run. I love flavored water as well as they make it more appetizing and enjoyable to drink water. Thanks for your recipes, will be doing just that tonight.
I love flavored water. It’s one of the only things I drink. I used to be completely addicted to soda and highly caffeinated/sweetened drinks. Two years ago, I made the switch to get it out of my life. Since then, fruit and herbs are always in my freezer to be added to a pitcher or glass.
I follow a same routine but I used mint instead of thyme. It works great for your body. I will thyme a try this time
I liked your style of writing when you start your posts with stories in the beginning. Also, I love flavored water and I also make Strawberry & Basil Flavored Water on the weekends mostly!