“Watch your thoughts .. they become words
Watch your words .. they become actions. Watch your actions .. they become habits.
Watch your habits .. they become your character. Watch your character .. it becomes your destiny” ~ Anonymous
A powerful reminder over the past year .. to guard my thoughts.
For those who may have missed the last post .. this is Part II. To bring you up to speed .. I shared a bit about my evolution with weight loss over the past couple of decades .. and the reverence for the everyday mental toughness .. that will always be required
By the time I reached my 40s .. though I didn't realize it at the time .. the ante had been upped
in a very big way
I found myself in the best shape of my life .. with the honor of being a coach and instructor to others .. as well as beginning my education in holistic nutrition. With newfound knowledge in hand .. I began being exposed to many different experts .. each with their version of an eating plan .. and I began trying them out
At first, these new ways of eating were exciting .. though after a while ..
I began to notice something terribly weird was starting to happen
I started thinking about it constantly.
What I'd eaten .. and what I shouldn't eat .. what I was going to eat in the next hour ..compared with what I'd eaten the hour before. What I should be eating .. this instead of that .. or maybe that instead of this
All .. of the .. time(!)
The first plan I tried was from Venice Nutrition .. as it was being adopted by the gym I love and whose coaching staff I was a part of. The basic premise is to eat a small meal every three hours .. with each consisting of roughly equal amounts of carbs and proteins .. with a little bit of fat
I dutifully set timers to remind myself to eat .. weighed portion sizes .. and modified recipes to bring the ratios in line. There were a few meals I knew were safe .. everything else? Not so much .. that is .. until it could be calculated.
Then came The Plan from Llyn-Genet Recitas .. one of many that will eventually be offered to students at Hawthorn to try. The idea? A way to expose those of us studying in their nutrition programs .. to different eating plans .. their founder's materials .. how the information is presented .. as well as a peek into their business model
At its essence, The Plan is about discovering which foods .. and/or food combinations may be inflammatory for your body. The concept is wonderful. It's the getting there that's a tad bit painful.
One starts with an elimination diet that's as strict as anything I've ever experienced .. with a new potentially reactionary food tested every couple of days. If you fall off the wagon, with even a morsel, it's back to
All of the common-sense approaches that had worked for me over the years .. were now off-limits. Replaced with rules such as eat according to the clock, no matter your hunger. This is your menu for the day .. don't deviate
My favorite coffee shop? .. I stopped going .. there was nothing on the menu I was able to eat anymore .. and everything else was too tempting
The more I thought about food .. admittedly .. the more I simply began to want. I developed odd cravings for forbidden things like cottage cheese .. yogurt .. or a homemade English muffin with peanut butter and jelly.
While they all used to be part of my arsenal of healthy eating .. now they were associated with
With the guilt .. came the tape recorder in my head .. that told me lies about how bad I was because I'd slipped. My goodness .. when I was caught up in this craziness .. it could be horrible .. and have an effect on everything else in my days.
This constant repetition of negative thoughts .. which .. while they didn't completely take over other aspects of my life .. I was beginning to see it from there. That is until one day I had a moment of
The kind that happens when we decide to quit the job that's killing us .. or cut ties from the toxic relationship we're in .. or move from the place that doesn't represent anything about who we are.
I finally had enough perspective to see that none of this was who I was .. and certainly living with these kinds of thoughts inside my head was not going to be a long-term
I read an interesting statistic the other day. When my food coach interviews new clients .. they admit to thinking about food 80% of their day(!) My first reaction was sadness .. though admittedly .. I can see all too well how it could happen .. creeping up on you slowly .. before you're able to realize what's happened
I've stopped all of the dietary obsession madness .. it took a while of being mindful and developing new habits .. but I've made it to a place where I don't intellectualize everything that passes through my lips anymore.
I stopped speaking so negatively to myself .. and realize that they were simply two diet plans. For some, they work really well. For me? Not as much.
The bigger picture of the accompanying spiral of guilt and self-loathing .. is all a beautiful lie fed to us .. and encouraged by the world.
My mind is again .. quiet .. and at peace
So .. you may ask .. how and what are you eating now?
(.. to be continued .. )
Sometimes The Chef and I love to walk around Whole Foods on a lazy weekend afternoon .. I can never resist bringing home a few of the things from their deli. This salad was too good not to be recreated
It's a salad that's a great side .. perfect to bring to a party .. and wonderful for lunch the next day.
A note about couscous. Israeli couscous and regular couscous (Moroccan) aren't cooked the same way. Israeli couscous can either cook in a big pot of salted boiling water (like pasta) .. or boiled in hot broth until done.
Regular couscous is either steamed or .. in the case of the instant variety .. simply mix with boiling water until it puffed and all of the water has been absorbed
~ Adapted from Epicurious
- 2 cups Israeli couscous, uncooked
- 1 cup dried cranberries
- 1 cup toasted pecans, quartered
- 2 scallions, minced
- 3 Tbsp olive oil
- 1½ Tbsp champagne vinegar
- 1 orange, zest
- ½ orange, juiced
- 1 clove garlic, minced
- ½ Tbsp honey
- ½ tsp turmeric
- ½ tsp dried thyme
- ½ tsp dried tarragon
- Salt and pepper to taste
- Bring a pot of salted water to a boil, and add the couscous.
- When it's done (roughly 8-10 mins, or when it's al dente), drain it but do not rinse.
- Set aside and let cool while you mince the scallions, toast and chop the pecans, and make the dressing.
- In a small bowl, whisk together the oil, vinegar, orange zest and juice, garlic, honey, spices, and salt and pepper.
- In a large bowl, combine the couscous, cranberries, pecans, and scallions.
- Pour the well-whisked dressing over it and toss to combine.
- Serve immediately, or chill in the fridge for a few hours to blend the flavors.
% Protein: 5
% Carbs: 49
% Fat: 34